Is He Cheating? How To Know If Your Guy Is Cheating On You
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According to behavioral psychology this is because men are more logical by nature.
In order for women to understand the workings of a cheating man they should prepare themselves in distinguishing the complexities of a cheater at work.
So, he suddenly becomes more responsive to fulfilling the needs and requirements of his partner.
In Psychology this defense mechanism is called "undoing".
If you observe your partner closely, then you will surely stumble upon certain changes in his behavior and attitude.
For example, if he used to come home and kiss you on the lips for 5 seconds (with a light tongue action), then slowly, over time, a cheating man will eventually awkwardly head for your cheeks or forehead instead, with a cheap smack or peck.
As his affair grows, you turn into a nauseating object in his eyes.
These sorts of actions are nothing but creating chances to meet up with the other woman.
He will find flaws and faults in your relationship.
He will find aspects of your life that will make you an unfit partner.
When you discuss your future, he will be very pessimistic and find reasons on why you two will not work out in the long run.
His moods will be unpredictable and each time gets a chance to leave your house he will appear gleeful and excited and when he comes back home he'll have the same resentful look on his face like as if he's on death row.
Say, before he enjoys inviting your friends for a backyard barbecue, now, he spends more time washing his car and painting it with a drastic colored scheme like fire-red or metallic violet.
Even his choice of clothing will change.
Also if things are still not being noticed your partner will try to test the waters by criticizing you at every possible instance.
He becomes less appreciative of your works and actions.
He will even be more accusatory when it comes how you interact with your guy friends.
His insecurities seep out from the guilt he is having.
In the initial years of your relationship he used to tell you how much he loves you a few times in a day.
He is guarded and wants to keep things to himself.
A cheating man tells more things about himself to his mistress.
He vents more to the other woman than to the wife or the long term girlfriend because he views the wife or girlfriend as an authority figure that he needs to carefully walk on eggshells around.
He will tell her everything because he views the mistress as someone who has no boundaries and inhibitions.
Even if it happens, he acts just robotically in the bed.
Stimulation becomes difficult for him.
Foreplay is lesser and he seems like as if he's not really into it.
Your conversations in bed will be very monotonous and he won't talk that much.
At this time, he is thinking about the other woman and how he also somehow feels like he's cheating on her.
And this is occurring every day.
Then you get a text message with a flimsy excuse like running out of battery power or not being able to hear the phone ring.
If he tells you he was at his best friend's house then you later discovered that his best friend has been out on vacation in Maui for a few weeks now, then there's certainly a good reason to suspect that he's hiding his whereabouts from you.
And lastly if you want to investigate on his affairs do not, by in any way, consult his best friend because men have a secret code of brotherhood to, at all times, protect and look after each other when it comes to cheating on their wives or girlfriends.
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